Comments on: Can We Reach Every Student? http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/can-we-reach-every-student/ Providing HOPE for educators since 2007 Fri, 30 Jul 2010 07:07:56 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Joel http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/can-we-reach-every-student/#comment-2790 Joel Tue, 07 Oct 2008 01:31:01 +0000 http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/?p=603#comment-2790 <a href='#comment-2744' rel="nofollow">@Clix</a> - Point well-taken. It seems to be a matter of semantics here. I think it's important to have an emotional connection, even if just for a split second with every student in my class. It rarely happens with some of the kids, but the challenge is to love the unlovable ones. @Clix – Point well-taken. It seems to be a matter of semantics here. I think it’s important to have an emotional connection, even if just for a split second with every student in my class. It rarely happens with some of the kids, but the challenge is to love the unlovable ones.

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]]> By: Clix http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/can-we-reach-every-student/#comment-2744 Clix Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:45:23 +0000 http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/?p=603#comment-2744 Mmh. I guess it depends upon what you mean by "reach." Have SOME sort of positive impact? yes. Create a life-changing bond? no. Mmh. I guess it depends upon what you mean by “reach.” Have SOME sort of positive impact? yes. Create a life-changing bond? no.

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]]> By: Margaret http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/can-we-reach-every-student/#comment-2709 Margaret Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:40:13 +0000 http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/?p=603#comment-2709 I have lower elementary, so the opportunities for conversational/relational outreach is limited. I use lunch duty as a way to connect (admire something in their lunch or urge them to eat the protein portion of the school lunch)There's no pressure & all can be "real" with one another. You can reach both kinds of challenging kids that way. If your student-teacher ratio isn't too high on the playground, you can play a little bit at recesses with them too. I am famous for admiring cool action figures & other toys brought to school for recess. That's one of the best ways I've found to bond with a kid -express an interest in their precious stuff. I have lower elementary, so the opportunities for conversational/relational outreach is limited. I use lunch duty as a way to connect (admire something in their lunch or urge them to eat the protein portion of the school lunch)There’s no pressure & all can be “real” with one another. You can reach both kinds of challenging kids that way. If your student-teacher ratio isn’t too high on the playground, you can play a little bit at recesses with them too. I am famous for admiring cool action figures & other toys brought to school for recess. That’s one of the best ways I’ve found to bond with a kid -express an interest in their precious stuff.

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]]> By: Lena Smith http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/can-we-reach-every-student/#comment-2699 Lena Smith Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:03:49 +0000 http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/?p=603#comment-2699 1 - I don't neccessarily think it's fruitful to yell at the troublemakers. I've had some success with the following approach: Get the miscreant alone for a couple of minutes, preferably just while walking to and fro, but can be done by just taking them out into the hallway. This should be during a calm period, since having a heart to heart is difficult while tempers are still up. I try to find some common ground with the kid, and establish a feeling of common purpose by touching on what I percieve to be their difficulty. I make an effort not to judge the kid's feelings, and ask if they've noticed that the other children/I/etc. don't like it when they behave like that. Usually they have noticed themselves, but have no idea how to stop. I then make a little deal with them, f.ex. to count to ten every time they feel like lashing out. I also try to let them know that I like THEM, even though their DEEDS sometimes dissappoint me. <a href='#comment-2697' rel="nofollow">@Joel</a> - 1 – I don’t neccessarily think it’s fruitful to yell at the troublemakers. I’ve had some success with the following approach:

Get the miscreant alone for a couple of minutes, preferably just while walking to and fro, but can be done by just taking them out into the hallway. This should be during a calm period, since having a heart to heart is difficult while tempers are still up.
I try to find some common ground with the kid, and establish a feeling of common purpose by touching on what I percieve to be their difficulty. I make an effort not to judge the kid’s feelings, and ask if they’ve noticed that the other children/I/etc. don’t like it when they behave like that. Usually they have noticed themselves, but have no idea how to stop.
I then make a little deal with them, f.ex. to count to ten every time they feel like lashing out. I also try to let them know that I like THEM, even though their DEEDS sometimes dissappoint me.
@Joel -

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]]> By: Joel http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/can-we-reach-every-student/#comment-2697 Joel Thu, 25 Sep 2008 03:19:18 +0000 http://www.soyouwanttoteach.com/?p=603#comment-2697 (1) It's obviously very easy to totally turn off the "trouble makers" by yelling at them and arguing with them. I believe that establish clear, consistent, and fair expectations can positively impact these kids more than we ever imagine. If they feel safe in our class, they will be most likely to enjoy coming there and we will notice that in less and less destructive behaviors... (2) I have the most difficulty with even remembering to connect with the really quiet ones. I was one in school. I can think of a small number of teachers throughout my secondary schooling who made an effort to reach out to me. These are the kids who won't do the reaching out, but they still crave attention all the same. + So what other ideas do we have about connecting with these kids? + What about the rest of them? + What are some of your most effective strategies for making sure you get to them all? (1) It’s obviously very easy to totally turn off the “trouble makers” by yelling at them and arguing with them. I believe that establish clear, consistent, and fair expectations can positively impact these kids more than we ever imagine. If they feel safe in our class, they will be most likely to enjoy coming there and we will notice that in less and less destructive behaviors…

(2) I have the most difficulty with even remembering to connect with the really quiet ones. I was one in school. I can think of a small number of teachers throughout my secondary schooling who made an effort to reach out to me. These are the kids who won’t do the reaching out, but they still crave attention all the same.

+ So what other ideas do we have about connecting with these kids?
+ What about the rest of them?
+ What are some of your most effective strategies for making sure you get to them all?

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