Remember the first time you realized you were riding a bicycle by yourself? Probably not. But what about when you first got to drive solo? Your parents trusted you enough to give you the keys and go out on your own! It was a great feeling. If you’re like most people, you were so scared of messing up that you were nervous and overcautious. Do you ever see the “Student Driver” cars where they put their turn signal on two blocks before turning and check the mirror seven times before changing lanes?
For many of us, teaching was once like that.
For some, it still is.
What happened after a few years? You began to drive like a pro! Some of us pretended to do it the first time and ended up having to call mom to come bring us gas or worse. But eventually, you got to the point where it just became another thing you do. All the advice in the world won’t make you a better cyclist if you don’t go out and fall down a few times.
Hopefully it doesn’t take a series of car wrecks to get you moving, but it does take some humiliating mistakes! I had a friend in high school who ran out of gas at least three times a month for about 8 months. But eventually she figured it out.
I’ve come to realize that the same thing happens with teaching. You can collect all the advice in the world (and you’re clearly here because you are seeking out advice…good for you!). You can go to all of the seminars and take as many classes as you can find. But the true knowledge of teaching comes from just going out there and messing up a time or two or three…or fifty.
I’m on the downhill side of my ninth year, and I am by no means through all of the mistakes I’m going to make. I’ll make at least five this week! I just acknowledge the failure and move on. Dwelling on the past doesn’t help a thing. Ya gotta move forward. You need to actually embrace the failures. Once you start doing that, you’ll begin to focus less on them and then you get to really have fun.
Do you know what happens when you embrace your failures?
You free yourself to take calculated risks.
Do you know what happens when you free yourself to take risks?
You unleash your passion for teaching.
Do you know what happens when you teach passionately?
Kids will fall in love with learning.
And do you know what happens when kids fall in love with learning?
They get excited about coming to your class every day.
The first sign of this is when they are sad that they have a sub. When that happens, you know you’re starting to experience a breakthrough!